O would some power the giftie gie us to see ourselves as others see us.
(O would some power the gift to give us to see ourselves as others see us.)
Robert Burns “To a Louse” Verse 8
How many people mistake their job position for their identity? Or even their ethnic origin? I had cause to ponder the subject recently with a dear friend. Both of us have lived in countries and cultures other than those of our birth and it made for a fascinating conversation.
The next social event you attend, take a moment and listen to opening conversational gambits. It amazes me how many people manage to work their job titles into introductions, then proceed to discuss only work related issues as if the world contains nothing but their jobs. How often is the first question, “what is your name?” followed by “what do you do?” Must I be pigeonholed? What if I have more than one career path? Must I choose?
At times I amuse myself by varying the answer. I know I’m not alone in this. A friend of mine varies his responses between test pilot, rocket scientist, and computer geek -- all with absolute truth. Yet none of those labels captures more than single facets of the fascinating complexity of the man.
Yet this is not limited to employment history. Some folks feel compelled to announce their ethnic origins. “I’m Persian” or “I’m Puerto Rican” they tell me. I’m glad it’s a source of pride and envy my multi-lingual friends. But unless it has some bearing on the conversation we’re having, why announce what is often self evident? And does it matter? Should it matter?
My interest is the limitations imposed by such labels. Not just by others. But by their very repetition, do those who self-label limit themselves?
What of those who have been more, yet are forced to be less due to bureaucratic rules or inability to transfer credentials? When living abroad, I discovered my hard-won doctorate would not count in the country of my residency. Had I wished to remain, it was expected that I duplicate years of my life to practice the profession that paid the bills at that time.
Nor is the U.S. exempt. It amazes me how often transcripts from foreign institutions are discounted, even as U.S. student rankings fall in global rankings of excellence. Worse yet is the failure to apply common sense to those fleeing wars or persecution, where diplomas and school records are buried in the rubble or unavailable. Does anyone really expect a man starting over in middle life is going to have the time and money to pursue a U.S. degree while finding employment and rebuilding his life? Yet job descriptions continue to target only those privileged few who acquire the credentials currently fashionable for a given position. Call me a rebel, but I’d prefer someone with forty years of experience in a field to a new graduate with a degree in the given subject.
I am so much more than a summary of career path, country of origin or my ancestry. Yes, I am a writer. But I am so much more than that. Should we meet, expect the unexpected. As I do.
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2 comments:
" What do you do ?" is a good opener for an intelligent person but what it really means is "What can you do for me?". How many times I`ve said I`m in IT then spent an evening listening to Computer problems. It was the same for the Nurses I knew who spent their so much time listening to health issues they became Undertakers, who want`s to talk about that ?
As for the written degrees, would you let someone who SAID they had practiced for 30 years but held no quals give you surgery ?
To the World you will alway`s be what you can do for another, it`s human. Whether that be love, sex or a way of earning.
When a man meets a woman for the first time his first thought is alway`s " Would I ?" It`s nature, we still stem from the cave men. Can I kill it for food? Can I procreate with it ? Can I procreate with it then kill it for food ? ;-)
Very basic instincts that are the base for self preservation.
How many times have you met a good looking chap and then.....He opened his mouth -ouch-
How you introduce yourself, where you are from, what you do are the important parts of letting someone know how they can use you.
When was the last time you spoke to a tramp(hobo) ? Some are very, very clever but we judge don`t we and the tramp is deemed no use to us.
Now I`ve been serious too long.
Why oh why do I rush through and never read back till I`ve posted, only to find there is no edit facility !
And in front of writers who presumably judge my grammar !
-Red faced icon-
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